The Travails of My Penis are At Your Disposal: My “Average” Male Friends Talk Openly About Sex

I am not afraid to ask anyone, anything. It’s a blessing for me, as a writer.  And a curse for those around me, namely my husband. I get into conversations about coffee with the guy next to me at the gym, conversations about books with the cashier at the supermarket and often, too often for […]

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Why you should have sex with your husband tonight

It took you 2 hours to get the kids to sleep. There were glasses of water fetched, imaginary flies pretend swatted, three stories read and everyone was tucked in—begrudgingly.  But not for long.  Because then there was the crying and screaming (you) and the ultimatums (them).  The bribes. Empty threats were made and finally, they […]

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